Buffy's muscles in her shoulders relaxed, she hadn't realized they'd been that tense. It was nice to know someone else had gone through that, if not the same thing, sort of.

"We haven't talked about it. It's kind of the elephant in the room and I'm okay with that." Buffy hastened to add, not really wanting to discuss that night with Carlos. "But our paths have crossed and," she looked over at Kitty, "I've told him a lot of stuff that I haven't told many people about my life back home."

Nothing about Angel, that was still a raw spot for Buffy, but other things.